Creating Immersive Role Play Around Foot Worship
One of the best ways of engaging with your kink is to have someone engage in a session with you that is free from judgment. Having a #footfetish is especially fun when you think of all the ways you can incorporate a little attention to that area of the body while engaging in other sexual scenarios.
Expressing your fantasy with your partner
Before you add a little fun to your life, the first step in incorporating foot worship into other plays is to have an honest and open discussion with your partner about your attractions and kinks. This conversation should be open and engaging so that your partner can share their feelings about your kink and what they will be comfortable doing with you. This includes talking about which area of the feet you are attracted to, setting boundaries depending on their level of acceptance and what you both may be open to and willing to try, as well as the creation of safe words to manage feelings during a session.
It is important to note that having a foot fetish is not always just about getting off to a person who has attractive or sexy #feet, it is about giving attention to it and some extent worshiping this part of the body in a non-sexual setting as well.
Ideas for immersive experiences with feet
From role-playing to penetration, there are multiple levels of creativity that you can unleash with fetish exploration in your sex life before getting into role-playing relating to feet.
- Starting off small
If your partner is getting used to the idea of your attraction to feet, you can begin with less sexual but still intimate acts. Offer to give your partner a foot massage using aromatherapy oils. This a great opportunity for your partner to become accustomed to this type of fetish exploration. From here, you can slowly move on to more foot-fetish adventures. - Socks and stockings
This, in particular, may be arousing as it can accentuate and highlight the way the legs look adorned in the garment. Textures of the socks or stockings can elevate the experience. Keeping it on during intercourse can also be enticing. It can also represent a connection with the body. - These boots are made for walking.
Like socks and stockings, these focus on the adornments of feet. In these sessions, one partner can wear #boots made of leather, #latex, or PVC, which are favored in BDSM circles. Attraction to heeled shoes and sandals that accentuate the curve of the foot are also common for these types of foot worship sessions. It is common to see a partner engage in the licking of the boots or being stepped on with these heeled shoes. - Attention on your feet
If someone likes their feet getting attention, then you both can engage in a play where your feed can be tickled or massaged. There are also instances of foot binding that somewhat fall into foot fetish territory.
Adding foot worship into your BDSM session
If you enjoy a dom and sub relationship, or being under the control of a dominant woman, then you can bring foot fetishes into the sessions. The domme can walk on you with or without stockings and shoes, they can stimulate your body with their #feet, can engage in multiple forms of foot worship, or in some intense situations, asphyxiation with used stockings can be consented to. There are some subs who enjoy the smell and feeling of used socks, and it can arouse them. Then there is the licking of shiny leather boots that form part of a master/slave play. There are many ways you can use a spreader bar in play; one idea is that a BDSM spreader bar can be used to fasten the feet apart from each other, and the domme can give the sub’s feet a little attention, or they can tease them while bound.
- Forced feminization
This forms part of degradation play, where males usually are made to wear women’s clothes and made to act like women. This session sees the sub dress up, and even wear hosiery and high-heeled shoes in the process. - Toe teasing
A sub with a foot fetish can be teased with the domme’s feet. They can engage in acts like licking the toes and feet or being caressed by the foot. - Size kinks
Size does matter for some people. There are people who like feet in different sizes; some like smaller feet, and others like people with large feet. - Sexual acts with feet
This is where things get a little more intense, and feet are used in direct sexual acts. Oftentimes in these sessions, feet can be used to stimulate a person to climax. For a more intense experience, some enjoy the insertion of the toe’s tip into the genital cavity.
Alternative ways to indulge in a foot fetish
Sometimes your partner may not be willing to engage in foot worship, or you may be a person who is single, but there are alternative ways to find satisfaction in your kinks on your own.
- Find a dominant or a fellow foot admirer
There are many communities that are open about kinks and how they can be explored in sexual and non-sexual ways. You can safely explore and engage with your kink by meeting like-minded people in these communities. - Sex tech
This includes advanced sex toys that can help you explore your fetish in a safe and private environment. There are various hyperrealistic sex #dolls that you can buy which can appeal to your fetish. There are petite sex dolls, busty dolls, and even those that appeal to fantasy creatures like elves. - Virtual Sex
With technology evolving at an astonishing pace, you can engage in conversations with AI chatbots that will be able to create dialogue surrounding your fetish. There are also AR and VR simulators. While you won’t be able to engage with an actual foot, you can explore more about the mental and emotional side of your kinks.
Preparing to engage in play
Before you engage in any sexual activity relating to #feet, you need to prepare that area of the body with care.
From a hygiene perspective, this means that you need to keep your feet clean by washing them regularly, cutting toenails, getting regular pedicures, and making sure they are infection-free. Sometimes, depending on the sub’s preferences, you can paint your toenails in their favorite color or wear charms like ankle chains and toe rings.
Conclusion
Like any fetish or kink, you need to be able to explore it in a safe and judgment-free environment. In order to fully immerse yourself in your attraction to feet, you should converse openly with your partner about what you both like and how to navigate your kinks in a productive way. From there, you can start off slowly and build your levels of intensity for engaging with your feet.
